Alice Miller has achieved worldwide recognition for her work on the causes and effects of childhood traumas.
She is also the author of many books, including Banished Knowledge, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, Thou Shalt
Not Be Aware, and For Your Own Good. She lives in Switzerland.
Review
"Rare and compelling in its compassion and its unassuming eloquence...her examples are so vivid and so
ordinary that they touch the hurt child in us all."
--New York Magazine
"An unpretentious little book with an amazing impact...Many readers find themselves portrayed with an accuracy
and empathy that seem uncanny, as if its author had been a silent, unseen witness to their childhoods [and] their
innermost and secret selves."
--Vogue
"Narcissism has rarely been written about with the clarity and quiet insight of this modest, thought-provoking
work."
--Newsweek
"A book that patients prescribe...the therapists are reading it because their patients are recommending it."
--Washington Post Book World
"Full of wisdom and perception."
--Anthony Storr The New Republic
Perseus Press Web Site, November, 2000
Summary
As charming performers who skillfully reflect their parents expectations, far too many children grow into adults
driven to greater and greater achievements by an underlying sense of worthlessness. Never allowed to express their
true feelings, and having lost touch with their true selves, they act out their repressed feelings with episodes
of depression and compulsive behavior. They in turn inflict the same legacy of repression on their own children.
This poignant and thought-provoking book shows how narcissistic parents form and deform the lives of their children.
The Drama of the Gifted Child is the first step toward helping readers reclaim their lives by discovering
their own needs and their own truth.
"A book that patients prescribe...the therapists are reading it because their patients are recommending
it."
--Washington Post Book World
"Full of wisdom and perception."
--Anthony Storr,New Republic
"Rare and compelling in its compassion and its unassuming eloquence...her examples are so vivid and so
ordinary that they touch the hurt child in us all."
--New York Magazine
Now revised and updated to reflect the author's new insights, this modern classic explains why many of the most
successful children and adults are plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation--and tells how to break the
cycle.